I just can't remind what I was going to write. About the counfusion/ perplexity I had to experience yesterday night?

The ideas came back!

Having the attitude of being frank and humble often results in negative results. When I open myself and reveal my shortcomes, my talk partners tend to show their sympathies at the very sight.  However, in other occasion they try to teach (or scold or even attack) me based on my own evaluation of myeslf.  My own words come back and hit me like a boomerang. Being "too" frank, humble and self-critical shoud be avoided. That's a very bad habit. It means that we cannot avoid living in solitued (to some degree). A very frustraing and bitter truht on human lives!